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+# I’m falling in love with someone who doesn’t want a relationship but likes me and wants to keep sleeping with me, what should I do?
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+This reminds me of one popular analogy.
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+A person used to feed a puppy with unadulterated cow milk every single day. With lot of love.
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+The puppy grew up to be a loyal dog. It gaurded him and his house till his death.
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+Another person saw this and and fed a baby snake with unadulterated cow milk every single day. With lot of love and an ounce of affection.
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+The snake grew up and bit him one day.
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+He wondered why the snake never had loyalty, while the people around him wondered why he never had commonsense to not expect loyalty from snakes.
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+The top line of the bottomline is
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+Your love may not be that powerful to change the nature of people.
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+Accept this first.
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+He has clearly mentioned his boundaries and established his nature. Respect that and try to align your expectations from your relationship with him accordingly.
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+Even if you want to try changing his opinion, consider it is a risk with win or lose situation. Prepare your heart that it is going to hurt and yet you want to try it.
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+Or if it is hurting you to have feelings for him and yet conform to his expectations, better give it up and cut all ties with him.
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+Always check whether you mind and body are feeling safe and comfortable when you are in any relationship and give this the utmost priority.
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