daily_english_reading/golden rule for relationships.md

What is your "golden rule" when it comes to relationships?

• When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
• Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans fires.
• If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.
• Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
• Never above you. Never below you. Always beside you.
• Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
• How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.
• The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
• When a woman is talking to you, listen to what she says with her eyes.
• There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.

• There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.

• 当有人向你展示他们是谁时，第一次就相信他们。

• 缺席会减少平庸的激情，增加伟大的激情，就像风熄灭蜡烛，风扇点火一样。

• 如果你爱一个人，就让他们自由。如果他们回来了，他们就是你的;如果他们不这样做，他们就永远不会。

• 男人和女人之间不可能有友谊。有激情，有敌意，有崇拜，有爱，但没有友谊。

• 永远不要凌驾于你之上。永远不要低于你。永远在你身边。

• 事实是每个人都会伤害你：你必须找到值得受苦的人。

• 人们如何对待你是他们的业力;你的反应是你的。

• 爱的开始是让我们所爱的人做完美的自己，而不是扭曲他们来符合我们自己的形象。否则，我们只爱在他们身上找到的自己的反映。

• 当一个女人和你说话时，用眼睛听她说什么。

• 爱情中总有一些疯狂。但疯狂也总有一些原因。

• 没有宽恕就没有爱，没有爱就没有宽恕。